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Pure Love in Suffering


In our spiritual journey, we often celebrate the moments of profound consolation—the times when prayer is sweet, communion is deeply felt, and union with God is almost tangible. These moments are gifts, but let us not overlook the profound value of the days of trial, agony, and spiritual dryness. It is during these times that the essence of pure love is most deeply manifested—a love stripped of self-interest, offered entirely to God for His sake alone.

The Beauty of Loving God in Suffering

When life feels heavy and prayer seems empty, it can be tempting to regret the days when God felt closer, and our faith was easier to practice. Yet, these moments of trial are far more precious than we might realize. To love God amid suffering is to love Him in the purest form, devoid of any self-serving motives. When devotion feels like a crucifixion of the self, it reflects a love that demands nothing in return—a love that is truly divine.

Saints throughout history have recognized this truth. They did not merely accept suffering; they embraced it as a profound opportunity to unite their wills with God's. Think of St. Thérèse of Lisieux, who offered every small suffering for the love of God, or St. John of the Cross, who found joy in the "dark night of the soul," knowing it drew him closer to God’s perfect will.

Living This Truth in Daily Life

As ordinary Catholics, how can we live this out in our daily lives? Consider a mother waking up early to care for her sick child, despite her own exhaustion. Her love for her child mirrors the pure love God calls us to—selfless, enduring, and uncomplaining. Or a father who continues to work tirelessly to provide for his family, even when he feels unappreciated. These are modern acts of martyrdom, where love costs something and is all the more beautiful because of it.

When you face trials—whether it's financial struggles, health problems, or spiritual dryness—view them not as obstacles, but as opportunities to deepen your union with God. Every time you endure these moments with patience and abandon yourself to God’s will, you grow closer to Him.

Total Abandonment: The Key to Holiness

True peace lies in surrendering entirely to God's will. It does not mean asking for more or less suffering but trusting that God knows exactly what we need. This trust frees us from the weight of self-doubt and scrupulosity. Instead of worrying if we are doing enough, we can rest in the assurance that our pure intentions and simple faith please God.

During prayer, Holy Communion, Mass, or even in the monotony of daily tasks, maintain an interior state of quiet surrender. Do not strain to make frequent formal acts of devotion. Instead, let your soul rest in habitual abandonment to God’s will. This quiet trust is not laziness; it is the deepest form of worship.

Lessons from the Saints

The saints remind us that suffering is not something to be feared but embraced. St. Francis de Sales advises us not to desire suffering beyond what God allows but to trust fully in His wisdom. While some saints were called to extraordinary sacrifices, we must humbly acknowledge our own limitations and remain faithful to the crosses God chooses for us.

When you feel overwhelmed, remember this: God’s grace is sufficient. It is not our strength but His that carries us through. Whether your cross is small or great, it is precisely measured by God’s loving hand to draw you closer to Him.

Encouragement for the Journey

If you find yourself in a period of spiritual dryness or suffering, take heart. These are the moments when your love for God is most pure and precious. Resist the temptation to cling to past consolations or to demand an end to your trials. Instead, quietly and humbly abandon yourself to God’s will. Trust that He is working in you, even when you cannot feel His presence.

Let us not waver in our surrender but embrace every trial as an opportunity to love God more deeply. In this way, we imitate the saints and grow in the holiness to which we are all called.

May this reflection encourage you to see your daily struggles not as burdens but as gifts—opportunities to love God with a heart purified by sacrifice. Let us trust in His perfect will and find peace in knowing that, in every trial, He is drawing us closer to Himself.

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